I just read an excerpt from The Worn Out Woman
This is a quote that really stood out to me:
“The problem is that we really can’t do it all- and if we try, the items we never get to are sometimes the most important ones. Overcommitment is not only exhausting; it also makes maintaining balance almost impossible because “urgent” issues will almost always crowd out those that are more important but less time sensitive.
We quickly reach the point where we are routinely postponing time with the Lord and with family and friends in favor of “getting things done”- even replacing meaningful relationships with the temporary rewards of trying to live up to everyone’s expectations.”
I want to do SO MANY things. I try to plan, prioritize, organize and stay on top of everything. I'm at the point of just trying to come to terms with the fact that I CAN'T DO IT ALL!
I (we, the family) get invited to something and we try to go because I feel it's important and I enjoy supporting my friends and family. Besides, I want them to return the favor and support us in our endeavors. I often get disappointed when my friends let me down and that weighs on me. I also tend to have a hard time saying no.
So, I’ve been encouraged to take the time to really think and pray through all of the things that are clamoring for my time and attention. My children are growing up before my eyes and I don't want to look back and realize that I've missed something. So I'm prioritizing which relationships and activities that should really take precedence in my life now. By setting my priorities I feel it will help to ensure that I am spending my time and energy on the things that really matter the most. If you feel frazzled or stressed I encourage you to do the same.
I'm sure you've noticed the lack of blog posts. I'm hoping to get caught up soon.
Raistlyn started 2nd grade, I got a new (keep me VERY busy) calling at church, Adam passed his 1st certification test, Rowan turned 1, and Caiden started potty training - just to name a few big events in our lives...we have alot of pictures to post to get caught up...but I'm vowing to not let it stress me out!
Raistlyn started 2nd grade, I got a new (keep me VERY busy) calling at church, Adam passed his 1st certification test, Rowan turned 1, and Caiden started potty training - just to name a few big events in our lives...we have alot of pictures to post to get caught up...but I'm vowing to not let it stress me out!
2 comments:
I get what you're saying, I struggle with the same thing. I think all mothers do, but some of us more than others. Sounds like you are very busy. So what is your new calling? Raistlyn is in the same grade as my little boy Jordon. Isn't is a fun age?
I was called as the 1st counselor in Relief Society over Enrichment instead of Education. I've yet to get approval for an Enrichment Leader or new Board Members so it's just me - getting ready for a Super Saturday Event. Yeah, almost 8 years old - Raistlyn is growing up so fast - I think she just grew 2 more inches since summer. We are all always running around with her, she is active in quite a few activities.
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